You should've dobbed Dainton, Mary! Whatevah dobbed means. Think of the comic drama you could've started!
Just a funny note about people who get strange about liking PSB: my brother-in-law, who has excellent taste in music btw, is quite masculine and tough: well he's a huge fan of WLIR on Long Island. This radio station is quite famous in the NYC area, been around for 20 years playing tons of "alternative": meaning alternative to the dismal, dismal scene of US corporate radio. WLIR has always played the newest stuff from the UK and Europe, a sophisticated taste in the rock they play etc.. LIR is deservedly well known to anyone growing up within 200 miles of New York. If you liked Depeche, Morissey, PSB growing up, it's your station.
Anyway he works for the LIRR,(railroad) and one of the rough mugs working for him accused him of liking "Boy George music"- because he listened to LIR!! To some Neanderthals over here, unless you're into redneck rock, ALL foreign/electronic/non-swaggering music is "gay!"
I was agog. Hope this makes nongay people feel better about being PSB fans- to some creatures out there, Depeche/Oasis/Robbie are just as suspect! Lol.
(And for the record, happy to say I had a great July 4th bbq with my siblings, friends and kids and we all had fun, "Se A Vida E" was a huge hit at the party- many many of my straight friends and family think PSB write damned good songs.