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Niall wrote:I think you need to add bisexual.

Agreed. The prejudice and ignorance regarding us is disgusting and frankly offensive.

I can't even spell strait

Actually there should have been tons of options... Transsexual, bisexual, trisexual, asexual......

psb-freak wrote:Actually there should have been tons of options... Transsexual, bisexual, trisexual, asexual......

Transexual isn't a sexual preference but issue of gender. What's the word for people who desire transexuals?

Radiophonic wrote:

psb-freak wrote:Actually there should have been tons of options... Transsexual, bisexual, trisexual, asexual......

Transexual isn't a sexual preference but issue of gender. What's the word for people who desire transexuals?

a transexsexual, presumably....

Transexualsexual, possibly...

In all my years, I've never met an actual bisexual guy. Who identified as such. They are as rare as unicorns. I say this as someone who's spent his entire adult life in both the gay and straight community. Bisexuals must be very shy.

(Actually, I must amend that- I have met guys who said they were bi, but in fact they were always gays who for whatever reason were torturing some woman in an awkward relationship to keep up appearances, obvious self-haters living a lie. Pathetic.)

Radiophonic wrote:

psb-freak wrote:Actually there should have been tons of options... Transsexual, bisexual, trisexual, asexual......

Transexual isn't a sexual preference but issue of gender. What's the word for people who desire transexuals?

Trisexual?!? Is that when you have sex with men, women and hermafrodites?
Men, women and transsexuals?

(By the way, is it so hard to spell transsexual correctly?)

Deschanel wrote:In all my years, I've never met an actual bisexual guy. Who identified as such. They are as rare as unicorns. I say this as someone who's spent his entire adult life in both the gay and straight community. Bisexuals must be very shy.

(Actually, I must amend that- I have met guys who said they were bi, but in fact they were always gays who for whatever reason were torturing some woman in an awkward relationship to keep up appearances, obvious self-haters living a lie. Pathetic.)

Given the venomous hate and contempt for us in this thread alone, is it any wonder that we spend most of the time repressed and hiding? It took me YEARS to accept who I was, even though I knew what I was instinctively attracted to since childhood. You are brought up to think that you are either all for the opposite sex but go through a phase of liking the same sex ("that everyone dabbles in"), or that one day you have to jump out of a closet and drop all "denial". Yet, all the time it's actually about the individual person that I am attracted to.

Being carelesly tacked on as some niche Lesbian and Gay Community side project makes for even more idiotic mainstream labelling and prejudice, from both gay and straight sides. As a bi I have the capacity to like the opposite sex as much as my own. No more, no less.

I was once dating a member of the opossite sex whom I came out to. "Bisexual? I could never be happy with that. We'd be seeing each other, but you could be looking at members of your own same sex and not commiting yourself to me!" But somehow, the notion of me dating that person and desiring members of the opposite sex was something entirely normal. Sexuality, of course, defines commitment, right?

On this subject I am straight but admittedly, I've met guys who I think "Christ he's f**king nice" every now and again.

I am yet to take that plunge but I know the tendency exists in me.

One day, I'm sure!

Resurrectionist wrote: What a clown! I laughed my head off.
PS. Welcome to my ignore-list, darling.

I don’t care about your ignore list, really. I never found you an interesting guy and all I remember is that you came to Russian PSB forum only to sell stuff you bought on e-bay. So I don’t respect people who visit forum only to make money. The worst thing you did is you tried to sell tour book for much more money, but you knew that some fans from different regions of Russia couldn’t pay more, because they don’t earn a lot. After you couldn’t sell you f…ing tour book you left that forum… For example me, I never go to forum to make money, I always try to make something new, posting some art or music and etc… I ma really happy if people like what I do, but never think about making money. Forum friends you got on forum are really potential customers for you.
It reminds me how fascists invited Jews to take a shower and after that they put the gas on…
Not good, man. Buy my CDs and PSB stuff and you will be my friend.

It’s about this businessman.

Now about homophobia… that I don’t feel.
Steve, I don’t know how to explain better.
As I said before, I don’t hate gays. I said that I don’t like hairy asses, it was joke, but I meant I don’t like men as sexual partners. That’s all.
About bananas… I meant men c*** don’t attracted me… It’s easy.

If you found it very homophobic… forgive me, I didn’t want to hurt gays.
I always respected this forum and time to time think how it makes more interesting, posting some my art, music and etc… And if I was homophobic, I never visit it.

If you found those my posts are homophobic – ban me, please, because as I noticed few people found my posts are homophobic.

About politic… That was my mistake to mix gays and wars, but I only wanted people will know the truth about that night where almost 2 000 people were killed by Georgian rockets, next day after that almost all West media said that Russia attacked Georgia, but they said nothing about blood rivers there.

Parkol wrote:

Resurrectionist wrote: What a clown! I laughed my head off.
PS. Welcome to my ignore-list, darling.

I don’t care about your ignore list, really. I never found you an interesting guy and all I remember is that you came to Russian PSB forum only to sell stuff you bought on e-bay. So I don’t respect people who visit forum only to make money. The worst thing you did is you tried to sell tour book for much more money, but you knew that some fans from different regions of Russia couldn’t pay more, because they don’t earn a lot. After you couldn’t sell you f…ing tour book you left that forum… For example me, I never go to forum to make money, I always try to make something new, posting some art or music and etc… I ma really happy if people like what I do, but never think about making money. Forum friends you got on forum are really potential customers for you.
It reminds me how fascists invited Jews to take a shower and after that they put the gas on…
Not good, man. Buy my CDs and PSB stuff and you will be my friend.

It’s about this businessman.

Now about homophobia… that I don’t feel.
Steve, I don’t know how to explain better.
As I said before, I don’t hate gays. I said that I don’t like hairy asses, it was joke, but I meant I don’t like men as sexual partners. That’s all.
About bananas… I meant men c*** don’t attracted me… It’s easy.

If you found it very homophobic… forgive me, I didn’t want to hurt gays.
I always respected this forum and time to time think how it makes more interesting, posting some my art, music and etc… And if I was homophobic, I never visit it.

If you found those my posts are homophobic – ban me, please, because as I noticed few people found my posts are homophobic.

About politic… That was my mistake to mix gays and wars, but I only wanted people will know the truth about that night where almost 2 000 people were killed by Georgian rockets, next day after that almost all West media said that Russia attacked Georgia, but they said nothing about blood rivers there.

He' can't hear you, you're on his Ignore List, duh.
*adds Parkol to Ignore list*

DJ Pat wrote:On this subject I am straight but admittedly, I've met guys who I think "Christ he's f**king nice" every now and again.

I am yet to take that plunge but I know the tendency exists in me.

One day, I'm sure!

I think sexuality is a sliding scale - everyone is at different points along it. I like it when David Walliams says he is 70% straight. Indeed, didn't Neil say recently that he was still occasionally attracted to women? I read the Orton Diaries a while back and was surprised to see that even Joe Orton found himself pursuing an attractive girl at one point, much to his own bewildered amusement. I don't know why some people get so het up about others' choices. You fancy who you fancy!

The Kinsey Report says there is a sliding scale of sexuality

0- Exclusively heterosexual

1- Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual

2- Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual

3- Equally heterosexual and homosexual

4- Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual

5- Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual

6- Exclusively homosexual

http://gaylife.about.com/cs/gay101/a/kinsey.htm

If you can fellate yourself are you gay or just lucky?