A very private issue - spread the message if you can please
Posted: Mon 16 Nov 2020, 10:40 am
Hello fellow PSB fans,
you might know me from here, my real name is Fabio and I‘ve been a member of this forum for many years and even longer part of the German forum with the same username. This is a very private issue and I‘m not even sure if it is against the forum rules (if so please let me know and delete accordingly) but I want to spread my own appeal for donations and want to use as many channels as possible. So this would be one of them:
We were expecting a baby, a girl, for March 2021 and were really happy and looking forward to it when just during a routine examination some anomalies were detected. Her head/skull suddenly was measured weeks smaller than it should have been at this point. We were therefore sent to a place called „Feindiagnostik“ in our home town Mannheim, Germany who are specialists for these kind of things and they did a 4D scan there only to find out that the baby doesn‘t have a skull cover and also that parts of the cerebrum are missing and that she sadly doesn’t stand a chance to survive or live. The diagnosis is called „anencephaly“.
To make it shorter as even writing about it pains me, shortly after that our baby was born and still lived for roughly 64 minutes after her birth before leaving us again and forever. It was a tragic and devastating blow for us and we will have to deal with that for a long time to come still. As part of getting through it we would like to have a proper funeral/grave which we have to collect money for as we don't have it ourselves as a result of the coronavirus crisis (I’m a freelancer and financially heavily affected by covid since 8 months now). We would be incredibly lucky to get the support for that here in this devastating time of our lives and would be eternally grateful.
This is not necessarily about asking you directly for help (of course you can donate if you want to as every single Euro is welcome) but it is more asking for a favour in the sense of spreading around the link to our donation campaign which I started today and which you can find below. It leads to a German donation platform called „betterplace.me“ which we try to use for this case after it was recommended to us by friends. If you could spread the word here, I would be thankful indeed.
Be aware that there is a picture attached to the links, so if you click on it be „prepared“ to see her
https://www.betterplace.me/beerdigung-u ... ernenkinds
Thank you!
Fabio
you might know me from here, my real name is Fabio and I‘ve been a member of this forum for many years and even longer part of the German forum with the same username. This is a very private issue and I‘m not even sure if it is against the forum rules (if so please let me know and delete accordingly) but I want to spread my own appeal for donations and want to use as many channels as possible. So this would be one of them:
We were expecting a baby, a girl, for March 2021 and were really happy and looking forward to it when just during a routine examination some anomalies were detected. Her head/skull suddenly was measured weeks smaller than it should have been at this point. We were therefore sent to a place called „Feindiagnostik“ in our home town Mannheim, Germany who are specialists for these kind of things and they did a 4D scan there only to find out that the baby doesn‘t have a skull cover and also that parts of the cerebrum are missing and that she sadly doesn’t stand a chance to survive or live. The diagnosis is called „anencephaly“.
To make it shorter as even writing about it pains me, shortly after that our baby was born and still lived for roughly 64 minutes after her birth before leaving us again and forever. It was a tragic and devastating blow for us and we will have to deal with that for a long time to come still. As part of getting through it we would like to have a proper funeral/grave which we have to collect money for as we don't have it ourselves as a result of the coronavirus crisis (I’m a freelancer and financially heavily affected by covid since 8 months now). We would be incredibly lucky to get the support for that here in this devastating time of our lives and would be eternally grateful.
This is not necessarily about asking you directly for help (of course you can donate if you want to as every single Euro is welcome) but it is more asking for a favour in the sense of spreading around the link to our donation campaign which I started today and which you can find below. It leads to a German donation platform called „betterplace.me“ which we try to use for this case after it was recommended to us by friends. If you could spread the word here, I would be thankful indeed.
Be aware that there is a picture attached to the links, so if you click on it be „prepared“ to see her
https://www.betterplace.me/beerdigung-u ... ernenkinds
Thank you!
Fabio
just awful ! My own daughter nearly died when she was born, and clearly remember the fear at the time. So sorry Fabio 