lalolalo wrote: Wed 10 Dec 2025, 11:43 am
TONS of books never opened? TONS?
I mean I've got a couple not read, but TONS? Why? I mean, why keep them?
Records framed? That is something that always amazes me. Media used in a different way than intended. But a lot of people do that.
I'm shocked about the "will never be played". It's really sad in a way.
I do have tons of books, all opened, some of them I quit halfway, some of them left 10 pages in. Sadly there's no time to read stuff you don't like, I agree you don't have to force a reading, if you don't like it, move on.
When I see records on the wall (Other than records stores of course) I remember my grandmother when she used to put plates that have some nice decoration up on the wall, and I always thought, why can't she use them to eat from them?
"just to preserve them" for what?
well, i have duplicates and updates of books, just like records and cds.. so thats why i haven't read them.
also haven't been in a reading mood, so when i do i will read a lot.. i guess i should add magazines, and
other things to that list...
i think you know about collector mentality... buying multiple copies or new copies... also,
the reason they will never be played, is i have 99.5% of them digitally, either ripped or downloaded
already... so there is no reason to ever play them.. i just add them to my checklist of groups, and
items on discogs... i passed the 10,000+ mark last year. i have slowed down a lot now. but i'm still
getting things. i have about a years worth of pet shop boys stuff i have to buy from the last album.
i sometimes wait until things get cheaper (or not), and then get them.
i have started a (fake) museum in my house, dedicated to music. before everything was stored in storage
tubs, so i never even saw the items, unless i wanted them out. now i have tons of storage racks, and shelfs,
with everything organized in clear boxes and containers.. the rest cover about 80% of my walls on racks,
frames, and the ceiling.... in the kitchen, stairway, and all the bedrooms.
I've got this crazy thought that we (I'm including myself on this) think those records will make us rich when we're old. At first it seems funny but now it just sounds so sad to me. Thinking there'll came a point in 20 years, when another 80 year old will pay thousands for the untouched unplayed Electric box (instead of paying a lot less for an opened one) I've got stored for 20 years on my basement.
The other day I was holding the white vinyl smash box unopened in my hands thinking that exactly. Imagined myself, barely able to go to the drugstore by myself, paying the first month on my nursing home, trying to sell my house and asking on eBay thousand for that unopened box, and hoping somebody would pay that amount and instructing my nieces they should ask for no less than that.
And then I opened it, smelled it, saw the beautiful white vinyls for the first time, and played them all afternoon while working.
Enjoy today what you got, while you got it! It won't last. All the fleeting moments of beauty, you blinked and then they were gone.
TONS? Really?
(Don't take this message personally. I've been thinking about this lately and used you message as an excuse to write it down. <3)
i will maybe sell off everything at some point, i don't have a family to pass them along to..
maybe my friends will get stuff, but most of them have huge collections too.
alternatively, you can probably get an auction house, like omega, to group everything into lots,
and have it sold that way also..
i'm not young, but i'm not old either..
hopefully, my 'new wave museum' will come about...
later
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